Facing problems after techniques from the film “Secret”? Part 1 How to pass wisely through the border (threshold) of troubles?

In the facebook I have found a nice lady who asked the help.

Here is the question:

I just starting using the secret, i read the book i read stories every day, but everytime i focus on thinking positive, i only end up thinking negative and my situation is getting worse. i know iam doing something wrong can somebody be so kind to help me understand the secret, or maybe give me some tips please. thank you.

My dear friend, I am sure you do everything right and what is more a lot of people face this problem, but they afraid to talk about it! They begin to think that they are too bad or these techniques are wrong.

The techniques are right and they work!!!! But…….there is another secret here.

I just want to start from some simple examples.

1. One of my very good friends from USA told me a very interesting story. He was adopted and had some offences to his own parents in the childhood. He was an alcoholic many years ago, but through the Christian religion found peace in the soul. The interesting fact is when he strongly decided to give up drinking his best friends gave him the trial. His friend wanted to pay any money to make man drink in the bar again, to buy him any bottle man would like. The best friend told a lot of words to convince man to drink only one drop of the alcohol. Man had strong believes in Christ and passed successfully through the trial because his religion helped him at that time. Just one drop of the alcohol and how many people could not avoid this trap of bad habit and could not give up alcohol.

2. One woman has been deciding to loose weight for several months. The interesting fact is when she wakes up in the morning with the strong decision to eat the only healthy food, she keeps this promise during the day, but in THIS evening her husband brings a very delicious cake. Just only one peace of cake and then she thinks, “Ok, my dear, I will eat this whole cake and begin my diet next time”. Next time her girl friend invites her and stands a treat. You know what? Just only one piece of cake every time and this woman have been only dreaming to loose wait.

3. One lady liked to criticize her husband and always could find something wrong in his behavior. She had a lot offence to the spouse. One day she decided live peacefully and chose harmony in the family life. The whole day she was very kind to all member of the family, she gave them many care and love, but in the evening her own children gave her trials and was so hysterics and crying that it was required a huge amount of patience for that lady to stay polite and loving.

The truth is…

When somebody begins to go to his/her new goal, tries a new habits and positive thinking there could be a lot of troubles, annoyance, problems from different sources, you may have a slight unpleasantness with somebody.

It looks like you are put on trials!

The bigger goals you have the bigger trials could be, especially if she/he had had a lot of disappointments, offences, envy, criticism to other people and ANY NEGATIVE EMOTIONS before you stat using techniques like the ones in the film “Secret”. It does not matter how long you had these emotions, stating from early childhood until now. The big problem for many people is that the negative emotions from the childhood have been forgotten. They are hidden in the subconscious level.

The more NEGATIVE EMOTIONS you had the bigger trial would be!!!

The religious people explain this in such way. When you tell the devil to go away he will try to return and will take the help of other devils to come back to you. It looks like this, but for many ordinary people it gives misunderstanding that there would be a battle and they should fight to win.

But the great secret is if you begin to fight you will be defeated!!!

If you fight with something you give it the power to win you.

Great words of Mother Teresa, “I do not want to fight against war. Show me those one who are for the peace and I will be with them”.

Do you see deference? Not fighting against something bad but trying to achieve something good.

Just only say thankful words to your friends who give you an alcohol, a peace of cake or angriness, just not pay attention to any critic and any bad word to your address, do not use critic in your mouth, only stay peaceful and continue your direction toward your goal and YOU WILL WIN.

It is easy on the words, but many people know, how it is difficult to do in the practice. But this is only your choice to stay where you are now or move to the best future you want and deserve! You are who make the deference.

Many of you may ask “Why should I say thanks for those people? Why shouldn’t I argue with them, shouldn’t prove that I am right?

How to pass wise through the border (threshold) of troubles? Part 2